How can I shut down ability to RV?

[shutmeoff]

I was married to an unfaithful man. I saw the infidelities. He denied them of course, made me doubt myself. We are now divorced and he admits I was right on all along. Problem is I am still receiving unwanted information regarding him. Stupid me!! I still love him but know he is bad for me. I don't know how to shut off the connection. I didn't deliberately open it in the first place, psychic ability runs in my family.

[snow]

Originally Posted by shutmeoff

I was married to an unfaithful man. I saw the infidelities. He denied them of course, made me doubt myself. We are now divorced and he admits I was right on all along. Problem is I am still receiving unwanted information regarding him. Stupid me!! I still love him but know he is bad for me. I don't know how to shut off the connection. I didn't deliberately open it in the first place, psychic ability runs in my family.

Hello. I'm unclear about what you're asking. If you're asking if there is a way to "turn off" the psychic trickle down effect from the collective or Matrix, then the answer is, not that I know of. It's inherent in everyone, because we are all connected via our unconscious minds. If you learn TRV, you could do a remote viewing session on the two of you to see if a relationship tractory is going to be successful or cause you more misery.

Kimberly

[wildfire]

Originally Posted by shutmeoff

I still love him but know he is bad for me. I don't know how to shut off the connection. I didn't deliberately open it in the first place, psychic ability runs in my family.

Well there you go. This is almost certainly more a psychological issue than a psychic or remote viewing one. If you obsess over something your mind will gravitate to it ceaselessly. This is a situation more suited towards traditional counseling and therapy than any kind of esoteric psychic technology.

You can take Snow's advice and see if a relationship between you two is a good thing, but even if it is, you'll still have to undertake the more mundane and difficult process of reconciling the issues that led to the disloyalty in the first place (if possible). If he's just a bad person, then again, you're back to option #1 where you simply need to close off the emotional wound, accept it/process it, and move on to happiness again (as a psychological measure).

[MySiddhi]

Originally Posted by shutmeoff

I was married to an unfaithful man. I saw the infidelities. He denied them of course, made me doubt myself. We are now divorced and he admits I was right on all along. Problem is I am still receiving unwanted information regarding him. Stupid me!! I still love him but know he is bad for me. I don't know how to shut off the connection. I didn't deliberately open it in the first place, psychic ability runs in my family.

Your connections to him are through your emotions. You can go back in your memories to all of the most powerful emotions you have with him and disassociate yourself from the experiences that provoke them.

Do you know how to disassociate yourself? They teach this in neurolinguistic programing.

Usually, strong emotions are remembered as if you are seeing through your own eyes and feelings the feelings yourself.

To disassociate all you need to is re-experience the emotional situations in a way that you are watching yourself experience them.

This could neutralize the emotional energy you have with him.

[transfer]

I firmly believe that every experience is one that should be taken advantage of. if this person was able to view their mate cheating - maybe the ability to do so was more an introduction into viewing if they were courageous enough to explore it more.

shutmeoff - i know you said this type of stuff runs in your family but was this your first occurrence doing the viewing or had there been a long pause since the last time you were able to do this? maybe this is a call for you to use it more.

we should know how open-ended viewing is - it's not meant to pick on any one particular person or occurrence which I say to shutmeoff, to see what else you could do with the viewing and NOT to limit it to just this one time occurrence where you saw your mate cheating. make lemonade out of lemons, you know? why dwell on this particular viewing - you two are divorced now. try viewing other things.

[snow]

Just so we're all real clear here, unless shutmeoff was using remote viewing protocols based on Ingo Swann's original protocols, then she was NOT remote viewing.

Remote viewing is a term coined by Ingo and his colleagues to describe a system devised to access the Matrix or collective.

I believe she was talking about just natural random psychic experience....

Kimberly

(correct me if I'm wrong, shutmeoff. If you are a remote viewer who has learned the skill than I apologize for my assumption.)

[14113]

How about pulling yourself together and getting yourself laid. There is more to life then living for other people.

[Hoya]

Hi Shut, (and all)

I recommend reading the book: The Celestine Prophecies by James Redfield. It is an amazing adventure novel that tells us about HOW most of us relate to each other and WHY. I'm sure you will find yourself, and your friends in there as I did. It is one of the most exciting (and Relevant) stories I've ever read. You can find it on amazon or other online bookstores for next to nothing. Your perspective of people will forever be changed for the better.

See ya,